怎麽办

Don't start something if u know that nothing good will come out of it.

But then again,

if you never try, you will never know what happens right? it might be a win-win stituation instead of the skeptical win-lose or lose-lose situation your mind has been programmed with.

this kinda thought has been rummaging my mind for the past don't know how many years. Sometimes, i ended up being the wining party, sometimes losing. its bad. real bad.

救命啊! advice!