June 29, 2009

close one eye

Everyone is brought up differently. If i feel my friend is being mistreated, i will stand up for him/her. Even if he/she feels that its perfectly fine with them, being very good friends, (i have to emphasis the word VERY GOOD FRIEND) i will still stand up for them.

But at this point of life, i have learnt to 看开 a lot already. If things doesnt go my way, just close one eye and smile. Thats all.

To one's eyesore is another's treasure (my version,LOL)

5 comments:

宅男 - 国容 said...

haha.... okay...

in my opinion..diff people are more or less okay with different stuff.. i guess i might be blinded by love and might be less sensitive to other people's feelings...

i dunno whether i am too sensitive towards this entry.. it might not even be referring to me... :p but if it is de hua, just tell mi face to face or thru the phone ba... maybe i need some reminders... thank you :o
if it is not, just ignore me... :p

Anonymous said...

That, is a very sweet thing to do. However, as you have mentioned, everybody is brought up differently. Hence, everybody perceive a situation differently. Everyone of us is governed by our own set of unique experiences.

I may feel that my friend has been mis-treated and hence wants to stand up for him/her. However, if s/he does not define the action as a mis-treatment, perhaps I will just respect that. There has to be a reason why I define it as a mis-treatment and him/her, not so. I wonder if I am making sense, but let us allow the person involved to define the situation by themselves. As a good friend, which I believe you are, I am sure this friend knows the presence of your support.

passerby =)

SeriousTayrius said...

hmm.i understand the fact that if my friend could be totally fine yet me,who is standing beside her/him making a big whooo haaa when he/she is not even making a din or fussing about anything.

but i guess this is the part emotions come in. i no longer am logical to think whether he/she minds a not, cuz to me, i love them, so i have/will try to protect them. hmm. it may sound silly. but this is me =))

Anonymous said...

There is nothing wrong with you being you. =)

What is more important is to recognise that we make the choice(s) to behave in certain ways.

What is most important is to be aware of the intentions. And, that is good enough.

passerby =)

SeriousTayrius said...

Hahha.. thanks..!

aiyo. who are u!? u know that my two hands are open to more fans one eh... :P